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Why Is Everyone Picking On My Mail Server?

By: Trina L.C. Schiller
Copyright © 2002 TLC Promotions

Why can't I subscribe using my e-mail address? That is a complaint I hear every single day. People write all of the time wondering why their big name mail servers, AOL, Yahoo, Hotmail, etc. are not being allowed by the businesses they wish to sign up with or subscriber to. You'd think that these big shot mail clients would be accepted everywhere, like VISA.

Well, these guys may be winning the war on SPAM, or so they think, but the end result is that you can't sign up to much other than lotteries and sweepstakes sites with them anymore. Why? Because their over zealous SPAM filters usually reject the e-mail that you do want as well as the junk you don't.

But how can that be, you ask? To understand the answer to that, you must understand how these fancy filters work. They don't just look at the domains that mail comes from, they quickly scan the subject line and content for key words or phrases that could be considered Unsolicited Commercial E-mail, (UCE or SPAM).

Remember all of those HOT headlines that you were told to use to get your reader's attention? Well, those are the very words these filters look for nowadays. The best words are now the worst words you can use. Have you noticed recently that people are playing with the word FREE, so that it looks like FR^E, or some other variation? Well, that is to try to fool the filter. FREE happens to be the number one word that most mail filters look for, not just in the subject line, but throughout the whole document.

Another thing that filters look at is file size. If you subscribe to an e-zine or newsletter, particularly one that is mailed in HTML format, it is more than likely to get caught in the filter. HTML files are much larger than plain text files, and filters discriminate against larger files. More and more, advertisements are being sent in HTML format; therefore, filters are weeding them out along with the HTML mail that you have opted to receive. (Funny thing though... the filters never seem to catch the blank e-mails that are over 100KB and loaded with health hazards. Go figure...)

Ok, so now you know a little more about what filters look for, but how does this effect you and the publisher that mails to you? Quite simply put, when your mail client rejects an e-mail sent by a publisher, it is logged in the server's brain someplace. If a certain e-mail address is logged too many times, a SPAM complaint is filed, and the person with the offending e-mail address is black listed, or worse; their e-mail account is taken away. Since publishers can not afford to lose their mailing client, they are forced to impose restrictions on what domains they can allow to subscribe. E-mail clients that have a severe history of bouncing fall to this as well, because excessive bouncing can have the same effect on the publisher as the SPAM filters do. This is due to the simple fact that if publisher is sending a lot of mail that is bouncing, the mail client (this time the publisher's own) assumes that they are SPAMMING.

Publishers and safe list owners do not impose these restrictions to be a pain in the you-know-where. It is self-preservation. Certain companies, such as Aweber, have a one-bounce rule, which their users have no control over. If an e-mail bounces more than once, the address is removed from the system automatically. There is no discrimination here, it doesn't matter why the mail bounces, just that it does. (That is the reason you are always reminded to keep your mailbox clean, and DO NOT USE AN AUTORESPONSE with the e-mail address you use for subscriptions, not even to notify your publishers that you're on vacation. (You may think it is a courtesy to send a thank you response automatically, but I know, for myself anyway, that I don't have time to go through my mailbox and see all of the, "Thank you for your e-mail. I will read it later," letters.) If it's (mailbox) full, mail bounces. If mail bounces, the address is deleted. It's as simple as that.) So don't be hard on the list owners that require you to not subscribe with certain domains, they are just playing by your e-mail client's rules.

I can forgive a full mailbox from time to time, but if an address bounces repeatedly, or I get autoresponses, the name is dropped from the list for my own protection. Now you know why.

One question I keep asking is this: Why do people sign up to newsletters with an autoresponder anyway? No one is going to read the ads sent to the responder, and the offending autoresponder address is going to fill up with confirmation e-mails and whatnot. It's like playing telephone tag with an answering machine that is never checked for messages. Now there is a big waste of time!

Incidentally, AOL and Yahoo are the worst I have ever experienced when it comes to filtering. That is why new subscribers are not allowed to use those domains, and I have asked others to re-subscribe with a different address.

Trina L.C. Schiller is the proprietor and publisher of TLC Promotions and The Trii-Zine Ezine, a Team Leader for Honeyfrog.com and the Owner of SugarAnt.com. Her online presence began in the year 2000, with the creation of TLC Promotions, and the first issue of The Trii-Zine followed in September of 2001. Her specialties include network marketing, team building and of course, writing and publishing.

 

 

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